by Ashleigh Evans posted in Pregnancy

Preparing for a newborn, especially as a first time mom, can be overwhelming.

When I saw this post in the community, I knew I had to speak out. I know SO many soon-to-be parents who freak out near the end of the pregnancy. Here's the thing: THAT'S NORMAL. I'm pregnant with my fourth and I constantly worry about what I might be forgetting.
Here are 12 things you need to know about newborn babies...this list could be 100. Consider this your little pep talk. You've got this!

Motherly instincts are real. Even if you've never been around a baby, once you see your little one, something takes over your body. You won't instantly be an expert, but you will have these instincts that guide you. Listen to your infants cues. For many women, it's hard to simply stop doing everything. Many people think they need to get on a schedule right away and do this and that. Laundry can wait. Groceries can wait. Follow your baby's cues to figure out what to do next. The primary needs during the first month are: eating, changing diapers, bathing and burping. Spend that quality time and cuddle with your infant as much as you can.
Breastfeeding isn't easy. Breastfeeding is a group project. Both you and your baby will have to learn the ropes together to make it work and it might not happen overnight! Be patient. If it doesn't work out for you, that's fine too. If your nipples are sore, be sure to use a soothing cream to comfort you. Remember: fed is best!
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