I thought my fourth baby would be easier because I'm experienced. I was wrong.
by Ashleigh Evans posted in Parenting
Having my fourth child has been a wake-up call for me. I totally took for granted how self-sufficient my older kids are. At 8 and 6, my older three girls can do most basic things for themselves. I used to be able to get some work done while they played with their toys. Now, throwing a baby into the mix, I have to almost remember how to function with a little one who needs my undivided attention.
Making things harder: Never before have I had a baby who needs to be held constantly. Liam also eats so much! I've turned into a milk machine. My other kids were demanding -- hello, I had twins -- but this guy is truly testing my parenting skills. Even though I've raised three other kids, that doesn't mean I've reached expert status. Every child brings their own unique challenges to the table. I was so fortunate my husband had 4 weeks of paternity leave. It allowed us to get almost adjusted to our new normal. If I had to get something organized for the girls, Ricky was able to hold Liam. The baby carrier has been a lifesaver! Once he went back to work, I was faced with another adjustment period.
School started three weeks ago and it's added an extra layer of struggle. The kids wake up crusty-eyed after a peaceful 10+ hour slumber and I'm a frazzled, puke-covered mess.
My Fitbit is so kindly tracking my (lack of) sleep for me: 4 hours tops. I quickly snap into motion to make sure the girls eat breakfast, have lunches made, and brush their tee...
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