by Joey Lombardi posted in Mom Stories

Society is a fluid and changing thing. Caring for a child is also fluid. The way people behaved even a few years ago draws very different reactions today. In this torrent of changing opinions is the perception of men as caregivers.
There are more expectations and opportunities for men to be involved in children's lives. But what happens when a male caretaker is not a father, not a relative, but a daycare worker"

There seems to be a comfort level with a male nanny or daycare worker playing sports, safely rough housing with, or being in charge of boys, but other aspects of care give some parents pause. One comment on the BabyCenter community boards crudely (but directly) nails what I am trying to say: "I've learned on the BHB that many feel penis=pedophile."
Is society more accepting of men in daycares" Sure there are terms like "mannies" making their way into popular culture, but would you be comfortable with a guy changing your daughter's diaper"
Should a daycare have to send a letter out informing parents that a fully qualified male nanny/teacher would take part in changing diapers" Don't we want our kids to feel comfortable interacting (and learning from) both men and women"
Before my son was in daycare, I really didn't think about anybody changing my kid's diaper. I remember having a chat one day with one of his teachers about a diaper rash and the whole room chimed in with techniq...