by BabyCenter Featured Expert posted in Parenting

By Cathy Hale
If you're doing an online search using the keywords "coping" and "colic," you've come to the right place. There are thousands and thousands of books and articles about colic and coping strategies. That's because having a colicky baby is a big deal. It may seem like an overwhelming situation now, but the good news is it passes. And you're not alone in your struggle.
My first baby was colicky. He was a beautiful, sweet, happy, healthy, and easygoing baby, so when the crying spells began, everyone was worried. Plus I was at home with him every day, so it started wearing on me emotionally more quickly than it did on others.
Spending a day with a baby who screams at you for hours takes its toll. I felt like I was failing as a mom. I was sad for him and sad for myself. I also felt isolated and alone. Was I the only mom with a perfectly healthy baby who cried and cried" None of it made sense. Maybe something was wrong with him or wrong with us"
If you're trapped in the cycle of colic, here are few things to think about that may ease your mind and your baby's distress.
Share your struggle
There's no shame in colic, so share your feelings and frustrations with family members or close friends. If they want to help you with your baby, let them! Every mother knows the journey of motherhood isn't always an easy one. The people who love you genuinely want to help you. Don't feel embarrassed o...