by Sara McGinnis posted in Celebrities

Forget trying to get the details on if baby is eating well and sleeping through the night, Christina Aguilera has something else on her mind when she gets a chance to talk to a brand new mom.
The mother of two recently opened up to Women's Health about looking out for herself (as well as women far and wide) by explaining, "Having children is the ultimate joy, and I love my kids, but women have to find time to nurture themselves. If someone has a baby, the first thing I'm like is, 'OK, are you taking care of you"'"
"Mothers are constantly expected to be the nurturers, the givers, the providers of a comfortable home. We're expected to be pregnant, have the kids, breastfeed once we have the babies. And we're expected to look amazing after baby, right"" the singer went on to vent to the magazine about myriad of pressures moms are facing. "Keep our husbands and boyfriends interested?because we're supposed to get back to sexy and keep things exciting in the bedroom. There's such a long list."
With that in mind, you can bet Christina Aguilera has more to say to anyone with a newborn in their arms.
"I would say to any woman: 'Don't be too hard on yourself!' If you're not feeling confident on a certain day, you have to let that go, and own, 'Yeah, I'm not feeling confident today,' and you move on and try to enjoy the best you can. "I'm not into deprivation; I'm not into suffering into getting ...