As the #MeToo movement grows, conversations about sexual harassment and assault are no longer happening behind closed doors and in hushed tones. Facing the reality of sexual violence is necessary. It can also be difficult, particularly for parents. We want to do whatever we can to protect our kids from sexual abuse and assault, but the mere thought of someone harming our children can be overwhelming or even trigger memories of our own traumas. It makes sense that some of us are reluctant to bring the issue up with our children. Fortunately, there are several ways we as parents can help minimize our kids? risk of sexual abuse or assault that rely on cultivating loving, trusting family bonds.
Build trust

The most effective prevention against abuse is building, ?[an] honest relationship where children can ask questions and share feelings without judgment,? says Audrey Rastin, manager of prevention and public education at Boost Child and Youth Advocacy Centre. ?This will increase the likelihood that they will come to us when they are uncomfortable.? Answer questions about bodies?even the awkward ones?with fact-based, age-appropriate information. This lets kids know it?s OK for them to talk to you about anything.
And help children articulate their feelings to show you accept and care about their emotions. For example, tell your preschooler post-tantrum, ?That was some really big anger! We call that feeling ?furious!?? If your child is non-verbal, there may be alternative ways t...