Mother?s Day isn?t actually about you

?I just want to spend Mother?s Day without my kids!?
If you hang out with other moms, you?ve definitely heard this. Ask a mom about her fantasy day and, before she even gets started on how Jason Momoa plays into it, she?ll launch into describing a day alone where she isn?t responsible for any of the usual things she?s responsible for?a day where she can sleep as long as she wants, eat the food she craves without sharing, read her book uninterrupted and drink her coffee while it?s still hot. There?s surely nothing wrong with wanting a day to yourself, so why not Mother?s Day"
Mother?s Day isn?t just about you.
On Mother?s Day, it?s your ?mothering? that?s being celebrated. It?s a day to recognize and appreciate the relationship you have with your kids. I won?t deny that every mom could use a break, but Mother?s Day isn?t about that. Sure, you may bear the bulk of the mental load, which can be exhausting and feel unfair. You are probably tired and desperate for some time alone. Did I say tired already" Shouldn?t you be able to take one freaking day to yourself without the responsibilities of feeding, clothing, planning and disciplining"
Yep. But again, Mother?s Day is not that day.
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